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asking gitrls out wasnt really rely on what the appereal.. u shud think about urself and her acceptence to what u have done... if she like or accept or happy to what u act and do... just go ahead chances maybe higher than 100%... maybe its guarenteed... if she rejects dun ever thin of failing cos.... THOSE WHO STOP TRAYING ARE THE REAL FAILURE
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i just saw this thread and i too wanted to ask something
i am friend wit a girl and have a crush on her. the problem is sometimes she come forward and talks to me but when i try and do that most of the time she ignores or just stops the conversation very fast. i wann know her more but dont know how?? she surprises me everytime and i dont know wat to do? Need ur advice
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Me and my friends went to a nightclub once and to be honest with you I was not having the best of times, I wasn't looking for a girl and did not really want one either that night... Anyway I decided to go up to the most attractive girl in the club and just start talking to her, no chat up line or being cocky just conversation like you would with a friend, I was surprised how responsive she was, we even exchanged numbers at the end of the night and became good friends, I would be a fool to say I was not attracted to her but that is not what our friendship was built on so I decided it would be best to just be a good friend to her... It was also nice to go out with truly stunningly beautiful girl from time to time... Some time passed and we had not spoken in a while, it was my birthday and I was in the pub celebrating with some of my friends, some of which were girls, it turns out that this girl was there also, she came up to me and said she could not believe I had never asked her out... I was stunned, she then went to the bar and cried with some of her girlfriends - Who did no like me, I really did not know what to do, we never spoke again after that but it was a bizarre situation that I learnt a lot from... My explanation now: I am older now and can see that she probably enjoyed our initial encounter as it was refreshing to have someone talk to her, rather than tell her how attractive she was and try to get her to start a boyfriend girlfriend relationship with her... The only problem is that there was a point where she expected the friendship to turn into something more because she was attracted to me from when I first sat with her and had a really nice talk about life and what we expected from it... Women are notoriously great at expecting men to be psychic like most of their girlfriends are but sadly we are not - a girl can tell what her girlfriend is thinking before they say it - I still have this problem, it's an unsolved mystery... Now to help you I would suggest you do the same, talk to her like you would any friend that you respected, if you do not click then it wasn't meant to be, but if you do then you must realise the point when friendship becomes something more intimate... If she ignores you, ignore her too, if she talks to you talk back but don't ever push your self on her cause she will never chase you and will probably become tired of your advances... Trust what I say, I have been out with some of the most beautiful women and I could see the envy on other mens faces when I was with them (I was even attacked a few times) The reason I had such success was because I did not act on my emotions, instead I treated all of them as people I could learn something from and that develops a stronger position to actually tell them my true feelings you will be surprised but the rule no. 1 when wanting to attract a women is listening to a women and giving sensible replies, this shows them that you are more interested in them than yourself, normally we like to talk about ourselves and our great achievements in order to attract a partner but in fact you should be commending her on her great achievements ![]() Hope it helps...
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thnks a lot for the quick reply
felt a lot more confident now and wil try to do as u said. and hope that the outcome is postive. thnks again specially to Drunken_Ninja ur reply was the best and nobody could have explained it better than this. thnks man
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